Switch on a porch light on a warm evening and watch what arrives. Within half an hour you'll usually have a small crowd of moths in different sizes, some barely bigger than a grain of rice, others like soft grey leaves. It makes you realise how little you know about them.

The idea that butterflies are bright and daytime, and moths are dull and nocturnal, is repeated everywhere. As a rule of thumb it works about two-thirds of the time. As a rule of nature it breaks quickly.

Why they come to the light at all is still argued about. The old explanation said moths steer by the moon, and a nearby bulb confuses them into circling it. More recent work suggests that insects try to keep their backs toward the brightest direction, which sends them into odd spirals around a lamp. Nobody has the whole answer, and that's fine.

Popular ruleReliable?Why
Butterflies fly by day, moths by nightMostly, with many exceptionsMany moths are day-flying and colourful
Butterflies are brighterOften notSome moths are vivid; some butterflies are plain brown
Butterfly antennae have clubbed tipsYes, very reliableMoth antennae are feathery or tapered, with no club
Butterflies rest with wings closed uprightOftenMany moths rest flat or tent-like; some butterflies bask open
Moths make cocoons, butterflies make chrysalisesOften, not alwaysSome moths pupate naked; some butterflies spin silk
Moths have fat, furry bodiesOftenNot true for all small moths

The one that works

Look at the antennae. Butterflies have thin antennae with a small knob at the end, like a pin or a tiny club. Moths have antennae that are either feathery, sometimes beautifully so in males, or simply thread-like and tapered with no thickening at the tip. A good phone photo or a magnifier is enough to check.

It's not completely perfect. A few unusual groups confuse the rule. But it's the single best clue for an ordinary person without a field guide.

Why the night-and-day rule fails

There are many day-flying moths. Hummingbird hawk-moths hover at flowers in bright sunshine, and a number of burnet moths in Europe are bright red and black and fly in daylight. Some tropical moths have iridescent wings that would shame any butterfly.

The reverse also happens. A few butterflies are active at dusk, and skippers, a group usually grouped with butterflies, have a stout, moth-like look that fools many observers.

Numbers

Moths far outnumber butterflies. Roughly 160,000 moth species have been described, compared with something near 18,000 butterflies, which means about ten moths for each butterfly species. Most of them are small and unnoticed. Your garden probably holds several hundred species you've never seen.

That has a practical side. Moths are major pollinators at night, and a large share of birds feed their chicks on moth caterpillars. Losing them is a quiet problem, since nobody mourns a small brown insect.

People tend to remember moths for the wrong reason: the ones that eat wool. Clothes moths are a handful of species, out of tens of thousands. The grey creature banging on your window at night almost certainly has no interest in your sweaters.

What to do with this

If you want to see more, leave a light on for a while, or hang a white sheet in front of a lamp and check it in the morning. Photograph what you find. Apps and community sites can help with identification.

Don't overthink the labels. Both groups belong to the same order, Lepidoptera, and the dividing line is blurrier than the words suggest. The pleasure is in noticing, and the antennae are where I'd start.